Paulo Coelho, “The wise are wise only because they love. The fools are fools only because they think they can understand love.”
That quote I have read on her blog, made me to look at the past and to think about my blue memories about a girl I loved once and still. An 8 years of loneliness and a pitty searching for what I loose.
As a man seeking for the right person in life, I found my self being fooled by my thoughts of Love… It was not the feeling that I could understand and design… There I found again that one shall not shape a dream about love and seek for it but only may love like it is meaningless and seemless… I suddenly realized, I have once fell in love just like that… and still remember those days so clear and truly. Maybe still searching this pure feeling… Who knows?
From now on, Love is not a feeling for me !
It is the way I live as it is and as I always behave as it is the most precious life energy which I can give to anyone whom worths, giving it seemlessly and slow enough that for the one can handle. On the other hand “Loving The Life” it self is totally different than an emotional – relationship. Cause in a special relationship, people should show their most innocent feelings and their naked personality. Once they achieved, there shall appear the most innocent, precious and uniqe “Naked Love” without rational, materialist, sexual and logical need or craving. Just a “Pure Love” and a seemless craving for being together in lifes’ corridor. Well this love state can not be understood but only can be lived. If two person can achive to that state their energy will turn in red and they would forget the world outside by the first shocks and it becomes an endless harmony if they should be aware and get protective.
Todays, people are getting married without loving and care. Rational, materialist and logical calculations defines a relationship and so many thinks that they can learn to love each other by time. Well time can not teach how to love but behoof from each other equally, creates “respect-ship” quite as a friendship but not innocent and depends on things. People living their life empty and by trying hard to handle their deepest emotional trauvmas,fights and having long discussions with their demons and angels.
If you come across with a true lover, you can feel their energy from their eyes and confidence, you will also note their satisfied soul, relaxed and chilled mood.
Now, how would you like your Loving served?
Well, I would like my love, Chilled in confidence, innocent on the rocks and pure red in a naked glass.